I have been told that we are like magnets to our twin, and that if you are both currently incarnated, then you will definitely meet at some point in your life. This is why our twin will usually be on the other side when we are here, acting as a spirit guide for us. chinalovecupid So, for those of you who are holding out for your twin soul, be aware that they are probably already with you, only in spirit and not in physical form.
When we do meet this type of soul mate and enter into relationship with them most of the time we d not stay with then very long and are often even tragically separated. This is where the stories like Romeo & Juliet and Tristan & Isolde come from. It is interesting to note that because these infamous lovers would have reflected each other’s flaws like a powerful mirror, these two famous couples probably would have had little success sustaining a long marriage with kids, two careers, and mortgage payments after the initial flush of passion subsided.
But yet, we have a deep-rooted longing for this type of spiritual connection. I believe that this longing for your twin soul is there to urge us to progress, as we work toward a higher level of spiritual mastery and therefore, being in union with our twin soul. Supposedly, when we can actually handle being with our twin because we have done a lot of work on ourselves over many lifetimes, it is the most blissful union that can occur in human form. And, I think that the reason that we do encounter them here and there over different lifetimes is to remember exactly what it is that we are working for.
So, how will we ever find these soul mates? By becoming the best version of ourselves that we can be, we will draw soul mates to us that reflect where we are in our own spiritual progression. That means then, that we need to spend our time working on ourselves, rather than looking for a soul mate. In my opinion, Shakespeare said it best, “to thine own self be true”. And then, the soul mate will find us.
We find our soul mates as we work to uncover our true selves, which is an eternal being who is learning how to better give and receive love
When I am doing a past life regression, upon encountering another person in a past life, I will always ask my client to look into the other person’s eyes and tell me if they recognize them, maybe from this life. They say that the eyes are the “windows of the soul”, and somehow by peering deeply into someone’s eyes we can see who it is that they truly are. This is how our soul mates recognize us, on the soul level, which has nothing to do with physical appearance or other circumstances.
The twin soul connection is love in its’ purest and most spiritual form, and transcends any romantic notion than we could ever try to assign to it
We will be drawn to the people and situations that will help us to attain the highest possible level of growth in this lifetime. This is true of the long awaited, loving and kind future spouse with whom we have a deep and meaningful connection, as well as the soul mate who appears in our life to deliver a tough lesson that we need to learn. They are all an important part of the big picture, which is our journey together through many lifetimes.